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In Proverbs 27:2, King Solomon offers wisdom for dealing with the problems of human pride and boasting:
âLet another man praise you, and not your own mouth;
A stranger, and not your own lipsâ (NKJV).
Solomon advises, âLet another man praise you,â because itâs far better to be applauded by someone else than to sing our own praises. In Proverbs 25:27, wisdom informs, âIt is not good to eat much honey, nor is it glorious to seek oneâs own gloryâ (ESV). Only arrogant and insecure people feel the need to toot their own horn. If our accomplishments have merit, other people will notice, and we should leave it to them to admire or compliment.
Proverbs 25:6–7 also warns against self-promotion: âDo not exalt yourself in the kingâs presence, and do not claim a place among his great men; it is better for him to say to you, âCome up here,â than for him to humiliate you before his nobles.â A humble person lets others offer recognition and promotion, whereas a presumptuous person sets himself up for humiliation and rebuke.
Jesus paralleled the lesson of Proverbs 25:6–7 in Luke 14:7–11, closing with this comprehensive application for all of life: âFor all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exaltedâ (verse 11). In His Sermon on the Mount, the Lord taught this kingdom paradox: âGod blesses those who are humble, for they will inherit the whole earthâ (Matthew 5:5, NLT). When we let go of our desire for a place of honor and greatness, we gain the whole world (Matthew 19:30; 20:16; Mark 10:31; Luke 9:46–48).
The Pharisees constantly wanted others to recognize their superiority and excellence. John 12:43 says of them, âFor they loved human praise more than praise from God.â These people were too egotistical and self-righteous to see that their faith was empty and worthless. Jesus asked them, âHow can you believe since you accept glory from one another but do not seek the glory that comes from the only God?â (John 5:44).
The apostle Paul taught, âWhen people commend themselves, it doesnât count for much. The important thing is for the Lord to commend themâ (2 Corinthians 10:18, NLT). Jesus Himself said, âIf I glorify myself, my glory means nothing. My Father, whom you claim as your God, is the one who glorifies meâ (John 8:54).
Instead of boasting about himself and his accomplishments, Paul boasted in his weaknesses so that the power of Christ might be made evident through them (2 Corinthians 12:5, 9–10). âFar be it from me to boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by which the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world,â he declared (Galatians 6:14, ESV). In Jeremiah 9:23–24, the Lord said, âLet not the wise boast of their wisdom or the strong boast of their strength or the rich boast of their riches, but let the one who boasts boast about this: that they have the understanding to know me, that I am the LORD, who exercises kindness, justice and righteousness on earth, for in these I delight.â
Paul echoed Jeremiah when he considered everything he had gained âas loss for the sake of . . . knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christ and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ—the righteousness that comes from God on the basis of faith. I want to know Christ—yes, to know the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings, becoming like him in his deathâ (Philippians 3:7–10).
The Bible repeatedly warns against boasting (1 Samuel 2:3; Psalm 75:4) and instructs believers to âlet the one who boasts boast in the Lordâ (1 Corinthians 1:31; see also 2 Corinthians 10:17). âMy soul makes its boast in the LORD; let the humble hear and be glad,â declared David in Psalm 34:2 (ESV).
Paul explained, âYour boasting is not goodâ (1 Corinthians 5:6). In Romans 1:30, Paul identified it as sinful. James called such arrogant boasting âevilâ (James 4:16). So, for this reason, the wisest course is to âlet another man praise youâ instead of applauding yourself.