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Self-centeredness is the prevailing attitude of all sin. Ironically, when we have an unhealthy inward focus—when life revolves around our own interests and desires, we set ourselves on a course to self-destruct. Envy is fueled by selfishness. It involves a bitter, dissatisfied longing to possess things, achievements, or successes that belong to others. The Bible is adamant about envyâs self-destructive nature: âA sound heart is life to the body, But envy is rottenness to the bonesâ (Proverbs 14:30, NKJV). Some translations state that envy is âlike cancer in the bonesâ (NLT) or âlike bone cancerâ (GW).
The Hebrew word translated as âenvyâ in Proverbs 14:30 describes an intense and sometimes violent emotion or insatiable desire. The term is closely associated with jealousy, anger, and zeal. Bones refers to the status of the whole person. The bones are the seat of oneâs health and strength. Thus, rottenness in the bones is a state of moral, spiritual, and physical decay. Nurturing an attitude of envy is rottenness to the bones because it is detrimental to a personâs body, mind, spirit, and soul. It is like a disease that eats away a personâs moral strength, weakens the body, and eventually leads to death. Elsewhere, the Bible affirms that our passionate emotions directly affect our physical condition. âA happy heart makes the face cheerful, but heartache crushes the spirit,â states Solomon (Proverbs 15:13; see also Proverbs 15:30; 17:22; and 18:14).
The Bible allows for no doubt that envy is a sin that must be avoided (Romans 1:29; Titus 3:3; 1 Peter 2:1–2). The apostle Paul names envy among the âacts of the fleshâ (ESV) or âdesires of the sinful natureâ (NLT) and warns âthat anyone living that sort of life will not inherit the Kingdom of Godâ (Galatians 5:19–21, NLT). Jesus says that envy is a sin of the heart: âFor from within, out of a personâs heart, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, wickedness, deceit, lustful desires, envy, slander, pride, and foolishness. All these vile things come from within; they are what defile youâ (Mark 7:21–23, NLT).
James warns against harboring âbitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such âwisdomâ does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practiceâ (James 3:14–16).
A person consumed with envy has no peace of mind or health in body or spirit. Envy is the opposite of contentment and tranquility. Paul tells Timothy that âgodliness with contentment is great gain, for we brought nothing into the world, and we cannot take anything out of the world. But if we have food and clothing, with these we will be content. But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation, into a snare, into many senseless and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destructionâ (1 Timothy 6:6–9, ESV).
Envy reveals a lack of trust in God. For this reason, the writer of Hebrews urges, âKeep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, âNever will I leave you; never will I forsake youââ (Hebrews 13:5). If we place our hope and confidence in God, He becomes our âportionâ (Psalm 73:26; 142:5) and everything we need (2 Peter 1:3–4). Like David, we shall want for nothing because our cup overflows with goodness and mercy throughout our lives as we live in Godâs presence forever (Psalm 23). If we seek the Lord and delight ourselves in Him, He gives us the desires of our hearts, and we lack no good thing (Psalm 34:10; 37:4).
Envy divides people and breaks up families (Luke 15:25–32; Genesis 37:4–11), but love is patient, kind, and does not envy (1 Corinthians 13:4). Envy is rottenness to the bones because it signals a lack of love and an absence of light. God calls us to âlive as children of lightâ (Ephesians 5:8) and âput aside the deeds of darkness and put on the armor of light. Let us behave decently, as in the daytime, not in carousing and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and debauchery, not in dissension and jealousy. Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the fleshâ (Romans 13:12–14).